It is very important to talk to your doctor about erectile dysfunction

There's no need to be embarrassed, erection problems are common (don't forget 40% of men over 40 have suffered at some time) and your doctor or practice nurse will be used to discussing such matters. In fact, you will probably be surprised how easy it is to talk about ED once you begin the conversation. Remember, your conversation will be strictly confidential.

What's more, your doctor / nurse is the best person to advise you about the range of treatments available and which one is best for you.

Starting a conversation with your doctor

Sex is not always an easy subject to talk about. So here are some ways you could open
the discussion:

"Sex is becoming a problem for me and my partner"
"I'm finding it difficult to have sex"
"My sex life isn't what it used to be"
"I'm not able to have sex like I used to"
"I'm slowly losing the ability to have sex"
"I'm worried that I may not be able to get an erection anymore"
"I'd like to talk about erectile dysfunction"

These points and any others you can think of can only help your doctor do what's best for you. You should also ensure you tell your doctor:

• How often you are experiencing erection problems
• If there are certain conditions when you can get an erection
• If you can still get an erection in the morning
• If you have any other medical conditions
• If you are taking any medications
• If you smoke

Discussing ED and treatment options with your doctor

Once you've talked it over and if your doctor agrees you need ED treatment. The table of treatments will help you. Here are further suggestions of what you might need to ask:

• Are there any other symptoms associated with ED?
• Is there an underlying illness that could be causing my ED?
• What treatments are available for ED?
• How and when are these taken/used?
• What are the main differences between them
  • How quickly do they work?
  • Are they easy to take or use?
  • How effective are they?
  • Are there any risks?

So, what should I do next?

If you haven't spoken to your doctor about erectile dysfunction it's worth making an appointment today - to help identify any underlying illness and to find a treatment that's
right for you.